How Your Day Comes Together: The Marry Us Emma Process

How it works

Emma’s 5-Step Process

We’ll kick things off with a good ol’ chat to get to know each other and talk about your dream day, your vibe and the package that suits you best.

I’ll guide you through all the costs, legal steps, and every little detail along the way.

Even if you haven’t locked in your date yet, it’s still good to chat. Your ceremony sets the tone for the whole day, so let’s make it unforgettable.

A vintage rotary phone being dialed, surrounded by lush greenery, symbolizing the first step of booking a call with Emma at Marry Us Emma. Start your journey with a kōrero (chat) to craft a personalised, meaningful wedding ceremony in Wellington.

It all starts with a kōrero

I’ll whip up a personalised plan and ceremony script that reflects your journey, style, and what makes your aroha story unique.

Emma seated at a table with a notebook and pen, ready to collaborate. Representing the second step in her process, ‘Sketch the Big Day,’ where she crafts personalised wedding ceremonies in Wellington tailored to your unique love story.

Sketch the Big Day

Together, we’ll tweak all the bits and bobs—vows, readings, and rituals—until it feels just right.

Close-up of a person writing in a notebook at a table with a cup of coffee and a phone nearby. Representing the third step in Emma’s process, ‘Check All the Details,’ where vows, readings, and ceremonies are refined to perfection for your special day

Check the Details

A couple holding hands as they walk down a wooden pathway surrounded by greenery. Representing the fourth step in Emma’s process, ‘Walk the Aisle (Practice),’ where the ceremony is rehearsed to ensure everything flows perfectly on the big day

Walk the Aisle (Practice)

We’ll run through everything before the big day, so you’re feeling sorted, relaxed, and ready to roll.

With a bit of laughter and a lot of aroha, I’ll bring your ceremony to life—perfectly relaxed and true to you.

Two gold wedding rings resting on a delicate fabric and ribbon, symbolizing unity and love. Representing the final step in Emma’s process, ‘Tie the Knot,’ where your personalized ceremony comes to life, filled with meaning and connection

Tie the knot

I’m ready – let's talk!

FAQ’s

  • Yes absolutely. Love is love, and I’m here to celebrate yours.

  • Yes! Because everyone deserves to hear your vows and "I dos."

    I can bring along a quality PA system for weddings that require it e.g outdoor or in a large venue.

    No yelling, no straining to hear—just every beautiful word heard by everyone present.

  • Absolutely! I love a destination wedding.

    I’m willing to travel all over Aotearoa to marry couples, and I’m happy to come to you. Travel within 2 hours of Wellington is included in my pricing. For venues beyond that, just let me know when you enquire, and I’ll send you a custom travel quote.

  • A celebrant focuses on your ceremony, while a wedding planner manages the whole day.

    As your celebrant, I will craft your ceremony, guide the legal requirements, and ensure your big moment feels seamless and full of heart.

    If you book me as your MC as well, I will keep the reception flowing with key announcements and messages delivered on point.

    For managing all the moving parts of your special day, you might want to consider a wedding planner as well.

  • Absolutely!

    If the thought of writing vows feels overwhelming, don’t worry - I’ve got you. I can guide you with prompts, examples, and tips to help you write vows that are heartfelt, meaningful, and true to who you are.

  • Of course - this is your day.

    Whether it’s incorporating Te Reo Māori, another preferred language, cultural rituals, or whānau traditions, I’ll ensure that every moment reflects your values and story.

    Let’s make it uniquely yours.

  • I handle all the paperwork.

    Once the ceremony is over, I’ll take care of submitting the legal documents so that you’re officially hitched.

    If you would like a keepsake, I can provide a beautiful copy of your ceremony script as a memento.

  • Yes! I can officiate your ceremony and keep your reception flowing seamlessly as your MC.

  • That’s what I’m here for. During our kōrero, we’ll explore your ideas and come up with a ceremony that feels just right for you.

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